At the beginning of this new year you have probably looked at your physical and fiscal conditions, made some resolutions, stated your goals, and are trying to carry them out. If not, you are asleep at the wheel. In your annual check-up did you examine your love life? Time for a heart check-up. No, not cardiovascular condition, rather your heart relationships – yourself, spouse, significant other, children, parents.
In the priorities of your existence, where does your love life fit in? Go ahead, list the top five priorities in your life. Any surprises? Does the time and money spent on your love life equate well with your other priorities?
QUIZ: (Please answer questions 1 and 2 on a scale of 1 to 10, with one being low and 10 being high)
1. How do you rate your relationship with your self?______ spouse? _____ ex spouse? _____significant other?_____ children? _____ parent(s)? _____
2. How important to you is your relationship with each one?
3.How much thought/time/and action do you put in during a given week regarding each one?
4. Is there something you could do to enhance the quality of each one of these relationships?
5.What typical excuses do you use to perpetuate the status quo, i.e. not interested, too busy,working, not good at it, rather be socializing, golfing, etc?
May your 2017 year be a good one based on reflecting on what’s important in your life, especially in matters of the heart. Happy New Year!